I have always felt this, most of the times, life just was a matter of chance for me…Some times for good and some times for bad !!!
One such good example was, I never wanted to set my foot into Java programming. I don’t know for what so reasons…I never liked it as a language…But, when my first job forced me to be a java programmer, I started loving Java like anything. It has become my passion in other words 
That was one good example of life was a matter of chance…similarly, there are lot of bad examples too. However, as humans we just prefer good ones {natural human tendency}…
I liked one of the quotes from spider man -3,
” Whatever comes our way, whatever battle we have raging inside us, we always have a choice. My friend Harry taught me that. He chose to be the best of himself. It’s the choices that make us who we are, and we can always choose to do what’s right.”
First read these lines in one of my friends blog, but when I saw it in the movie, I really liked it. I felt each and every word in it is true…We always have a choice, whatever is the situation!!! Its which choice we prefer to choose that decides the what we will be or what we are or what we were
Forget about situations where you don’t have a choice, but for most of them we do have
