Common term everyone would have heard, or yahoo terminology would be emoticons…
These small icons or graphic images map our real emotions to a computer based emotions…Some emoticons are real cute, they express more than what humans do in reality.
One question I had always had when using them is, Are we heading towards a virtual world where we often have imaginary character of our-self.Like, Mr.Anderson and Neo in the “The Matrix”…The emerging social networking sites are incorporating features to even map our physical and mental self into an virtual image. Though it has some good, it has weighted bad too, psychologically we are tend to be under a self pressure…What all we are unable to do in reality will be capable in virtual world…so the human mind just tends to stay in the virtual world where there no failures, no sadness, no defeats and no negativity. This eventually leads to addiction which eventually eats our own mental self.Then we would turn mere living cells feeding our expressivity, our thoughts and our emotions to our virtual image and end up no where…
Well, that was not the real thing I wanted to convey, that’s one thing that’s greatly occurring these days.
Now back to the subject of discussion…
In our real life, we forget that we are humans born to live a happy life and enjoy life. We often just get behind some or the other thing, would have started with studies…then work…then skill set development…then onsite…then again a study or family…and it goes on and on…If we ever give a thought to us, “Man!! stop !! if you go on running behind something when would you live your life??”…The instant answer we would give is, “After achieving…so and so..so and so…” and the list keeps growing…By the time we reach the end of it, we would have already finished meaningful part of our life 
So the answer eventually is – Live your life while you grow and while you are in your achievement or growth phase…Don’t forget the key purpose of life and don’t just concentrate in the surrounding factors…
I felt this occurring commonly in me, one common comment I receive from my colleagues is, I always have a tensed face or probably an serious face…I don’t really know how it got a fit inside me…A little observation to my facial reactions proved they were right. I analyzed and did find out that, I forget to smile or keep a smiling face…this is naturally because every-time my mind/brain seems to be preoccupied with something..even if its a lightweight brain thread or a heavyweight brain process it just keeps consuming answers to what next? what next? what next? what next? and goes working on it…
I think its time, I shut it down and do something else to get it back to normal…stop taking things seriously…make work as just work…concentrate a bit of self development…concentrate a bit on enjoying the beauty of life and nature…Overhauling time for my brain machine
Some-other things which I am going to try are,
- When I walk, when I eat, when I breath, when I sleep or whatever I do…I am going to auto suggest myself to stop thinking too much and just concentrate on whatever I am doing in the present.
- No parallel processing and no concurrent processing. Going to be in single threaded model for some time.
- Take good time to sleep, to eat healthy food(of-course fat free) and read as much as “out of subject” books.
- Try and smile whenever possible…whether its necessary or unnecessary.
- Stop frowning 
- Finally, LIVE MY LIFE
So guys and girls…its your turn now…Do whatever get out of it !!! Its not really good out there
If you have tackled these kind of situation better, please do let us know.
